11 Year old boy​

 11 Year old boy​

I will be the mentor of developing an 11 years old boy.


The everyday lives may be greatly influenced by a number of changes and transformations that are being experienced in 11 year old boys. This age can be described as a middle and can be best described as a transitional stage between childhood and youth. It is change in the physical, emotional, and social aspects of life that are to be undergo. Where as independence on the other hand provides a good sense of curiosity. This however does not mean that parental links are not wanted or not needed in the following ways. · ‘Precision-Attack’ on Egocentrism – In this article only the narrative- and instructional literature about fathers’ involvement in the development of an 11 year old boy will be presented.


1: Physical Changes

Boys reach puberty usually at the age of eleven years. There are many changes during that time but most boys can expect the following:

Growth Spurt: this include the increase in height where the Lean body structure does occur.

Puberty signs: It does arise however, due to high testosterone injections during puberty such as new body hair, more body odor and low pitch voice.

Surges of Energy: Some kids who used to be shy and laze around now demonstrate a great desire to play outside.

Parents should also make sure their child eats right, sleeps well and is active. The child needs to be encouraged to engage in the sports simply because it is healthy and.especially if the child wants the child to be able to develop social relationships.


2: Trouble with Sounds and Letters

Thinking about it as boys grow older the age of Eleven is when one starts to mature and develop conscience throughout the things one begins to notice. More changes come with this including:

Peer Involvement: whereas at this age children start to have group consciousness, therefore they are likely to form small groups hence leading to high pressure among themselves.

Growth In Freedom: Most boys want to take as many decisions as possible while most of them also want to experiment various boundaries but the results indicate that they seek help from parents.

Aggressive Mood Swings: these are very natural since some boys will experience periodic episodes of emotions and some feelings typical of this stage of development. This article has the purpose of positively promoting exchanges between the child/parent and all individuals and help the children express their emotions. Healthy, constructive communication is possible only within the atmosphere of fun and excitement.

3: Faculty: Boundaries and Freedom

A beautiful animated film on a theme of a young boy in his transition from childhood to teenage. The key message is translated in a way that freedom and rules have to be in a balance.

Set clear expectations: Make sure rules are set and don’t change often while at the same time making some non-essential changes ok. Describe the effects that arise from the violation of rules. Don’t leave him out when formulating the family code of conduct.

Allow Choices: Allow him choose on clothes, leisure and other activities. This builds confidence.

Check Media Use: Keep an eye on his video game, internet and social networking habits. Limitations in order to regulate the time spent playing on the screens, or the time spent outdoors and any other activities.

Tip for Parents: Let him set time that is appropriate for screen time. The reason behind the rules could also be expounded here. This makes them expectation to be followed by him.

4:  Teaching Responsibility and Self Independence

Taking responsibility, hence, is a major focus of education at this age. Boys of pathan are getting ready to confront emerging challenges of adolescent stage.

Assign chores: Allow them chores such as the taking the garbage out or washing the dishes and placing them on the dining table. This makes them feel valued and equally can be rated as teaching them mannered responsibilities.

Support Time Management: Encourage them on his effort to balance between school activities and play, work and play. He or she can be very useful if there is a planner or a schedule.

Promote problem-solving: You should encourage them to seek how these problems will be solved. This leads to improved preparations in case of shocks and in general to better analytical work.

Tip for Parents: Always praise your efforts. Positive feedback encourages the person and raises the likelihood of repeating the positive feedback response.


5: Conclusion

It is fun but not exactly cakewalk when it comes to parenting an 11 years old boy. In this age boys desire to be individualistic but they are more dependent to their parents. The fact is, it is easier to be able to direct change when they know how it impacts their growth. Because every kid is special that means that one should use different strategy. Your patience equals your investment, this article seeks to encourage you to persevere in raising a young man who is confident.

In fact, parenting entails being available, being an active listener, encouraging and easing through all the problematic situations. Hey, vista young: sleeps, walks, eats, shuts, sweats, and loves and should make the most out of this flexible time as possible. It builds a strong future. Happy parenting!



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